Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Parisian Splendour in the Heart of Sydney




Warning: Minimalists look away! Looking for a stylish new (Sydney) haunt to catch up with friends or romance your partner? With an abundance of glitz, gold and glamour, the Palace of Versailles comes to Australia in this resplendent and exclusive cocktail bar.






It is fair to say that my first experience of De Nom really captured what the exclusive cocktail lounge is all about. It was a couple of years ago and I had received an invitation to the launch of Bulgari’s latest fragrance, Jasmine Noir, which was to be held (suitably) within the elegant rooms of De Nom (which incidentally is French for “by name”). Assuming it would be rather straight forward to locate, I hailed a cab only moments before the launch was due to begin.

“To De Nom in Darlinghurst, please,” I said to the taxi driver. He shot me a blank look. “The Norm? Never heard of it,” he grunted back.

The invitation said it was on Paddington’s Oxford Street, so I assumed if we drove up and down Oxford Street, we would see a sign. I was wrong. After twenty minutes of driving around Darlinghurst, I finally decided to telephone the Public Relations Manager who had organised the event, and she had to give me detailed blow-by-blow directions to its secret location. Evidently, De Nom was far more exclusive than I had given it credit for.

But such privacy and mystery is the allure of the bar, touted by many as Sydney’s most elite. With a running theme of opulence, flamboyance and complete indulgence, De Nom is a sanctuary for the well-heeled of society’s upper echelon; the memory of its splendour guaranteed to remain with you long after your last glass of champagne. 



Owners Phil Cawood and Paul Schell spared no expense in designing a world of 18th century maximalist Parisian style. Opened in April 2006 by Mick Jagger of The Rolling Stones, the boutique bar features silk-tented ceilings, 23-carat gold gilded wall panelling, cascading chandeliers, lush velvet day beds, an abundance of Versailles-inspired glistening mirrors, an American burr walnut library antique Louis furniture.






Personally, my favourite aspect of this high-class haunt is the unique bathrooms (above), each designed as individual private sitting rooms. These bathrooms feature the bar’s signature silk tented ceilings, chandeliers and bespoke wallpaper, but there are also more unusual nuances to admire. The ladies’ room features a Louis-inspired chair which conceals the toilet. When the toilet is flushed, an heavily framed oil painting that hangs on the wall lifts up and reveals a gold swan basin. Water spurts into the basin from a finely crafted lion’s mouth. Similarly unique are the men’s bathrooms, which feature a room of mirrors with a smiling cavalier painting set behind glass.





An iconic destination for intimate live sounds, De Nom is renowned for hosting private and exclusive acoustic performances. Once, it hosted a live impromptu performance by Axl Rose from Guns N Roses who sang “Little Wing” by Jimmi Hendrix. There is also a fortnightly show called ‘A Night of Burlesque Follies’, starring internationally renowned cabaret and burlesque performer, Rachel St James.

For those who enjoy the finer things in life, De Nom is a deluxe destination to be enjoyed and marvelled. My only advice? Ensure you advise your driver to drop you off at Ruby Rabbit, the bar on the ground level of De Nom. It is more widely known and easier to locate.


De Nom
Level 3, 231 Oxford Street
Darlinghurst

Monday, April 5, 2010

At Work Essentials


Most of us are back at work after a long weekend (how very, very sad), and as generally seems to be the case, I barely made a dent in my ‘to-do’ list. I love lists and I usually find I follow them like gospel… except on holidays. But more about that on another day. One of the neglected items on my ‘to-do’ list was “reinstate rigorous beauty regime”.

As I’m sure I’ve whinged about before, it has been an incredibly hectic few weeks, and while I still maintain by daily beauty rituals, some of the more irregular ceremonies, like applying face masks and getting full body waxes (yes, ouch!) have been far and few between. It is hard to find time in the day to do everything, and it’s particularly difficult to find time to do these “me” things.

From my time working in the beauty industry, I was able to glean a few tips that I continue to do on a very regular basis, to keep the “canvas” (that’s you – and in my case, me!) in the best possible condition. I’ll be honest. This list is extensive. But for the sake of brevity, I will cover just some that fall into a particularly useful category.

As a time-saver, I have compiled a list of preening rituals and beauty maintenance that I perform at more unconventional times. When I’m on-the-go. Namely, in the office.

Beauty rituals in the office? Yes, I’m aware of how bizarre and unprofessional that may sound, but let me assure you – once you’ve tried it (and got away with it), you’ll never go back.

Firstly, I cannot stress enough how important it is to look your best at work. It is very easy to fall into a ‘work rut’ and believe me – I’ve been there. But putting a few extra minutes into your morning ritual to look a bit more special for work translates into so much more. You look in control, organised and ooze self respect – all vital character traits in the quest for success in the work place.





I have interviewed some glamorous and highly successful women in the workplace, like fashion designers, television presenters and entrepreneurs. All of them look impeccably polished and I do not believe this was just for our interview. Even when I’ve bumped into these inspiring women in the street during a lunch break or at the grocery store after work, they look flawless and professional.

For many career women, the office becomes something of a second home. It makes sense to me then, to keep some “essentials” in your desk draw.





Let me be clear: in no way am I suggesting you slack off at work to perform your beauty regime; or adapt a ridiculous ‘nothing matters more than looking beautiful’ attitude. Intelligence and integrity are the touch-stones of professional success. I believe in maintaining an excellent work ethic and working hard to get ahead – but there are a few moments everyday – when you are waiting for your emails to load, or when you’re downloading a file, or when you’re having your lunch break – when you can put that time to good use and achieve certain things.

Desperately trying not to sound like a self-involved vain bimbo (though I assume I’m failing miserably), the staples I keep in my desk drawer are:

- Toothbrush, toothpaste, mouth wash and dental floss. Oral hygiene is of the utmost of importance – particularly in the workplace. Studies have shown that people with beautiful smiles and teeth are more likely to be successful. And it's common courtesy to have clean teeth and fresh breath when speaking to others, especially in a professional capacity. 






- A light body moisturiser. I currently have Nivea’s Light Touch in my desk because it is lightly fragranced and quickly absorbent. You want something quick and easy – no muss, no fuss. Air-conditioning and heating can wreck havoc on the skin. Good moisturisation, I believe, is the most crucial beauty element. Moisturised skin not only feels nice to touch, but it glows with good health. Also on this point, I keep my bottle of water constantly full – it’s important to be hydrated inside and out. Obviously. A naturopath once told me that you should sip water rather than gulp it. If you gulp it, it just goes straight through your system and will have you running to the bathroom. Sipping however gives the body time to absorb it. Don’t know if I believe this, but I like the theory behind it.





- Nail polish remover and nail polish. Simply put, chipped nail polish is tacky and foul. I hate it. But I know how hard it is to keep your polish perfect - if you do anything with your hands, like washing the dishes, or even vigorous typing (like I am now), its inevitable that you will get a chip, or two, or three. There’s nothing more embarrassing than going into an important meeting and having disgusting chipped nails. If you’re anything like me, and express yourself with your hands when you’re speaking (which I’ve been told is very effective in face-to-face meetings but rather pointless in phone conversations), then your nails become a focal point. Keep the nail polish remover and nail polish (OPI are the best) in your drawer for emergency fix ups… or if that’s impossible, stick to neutral colours or go completely au natural. 






- Dry Shampoo. In my opinion, one of the beauty industry’s greatest inventions is dry shampoo for reasons twofold: it gives your hair volume, lift and bounce; and, most importantly, the impression of cleanliness. It instantly absorbs oil, adds body and lightly fragrances the hair. Never underestimate the importance of good hair for without it, you can never look truly polished. Oily, greasy hair makes you look disorganised, tired and unkempt. Dry shampoo eliminates this problem with a few quick spritzes. This is one product however that I suggest you administer in the work bathrooms so as not to disturb other colleagues with the smell (albeit a delightful one!). I also keep a small, purse-sized can of hairspray, hair elastics, bobby pins and a hairbrush next to the dry shampoo in my desk drawer as well. 






- Perfume – I am the perfume Queen and cannot sing its praises enough. Everywhere I go, I have a bottle of perfume with me, and the office is certainly no exception. I think the way you smell is the most powerful way you can present yourself to others. I always link memories with smells. I love the notion of a signature scent, but find it very difficult to remain faithful to just one fragrance, particularly in social settings and on the weekends. Despite this issue with fidelity on the weekends, I do generally have a monogamous ‘professional’ fragrance. Something that makes me smell amazing, but still feel powerful and in control. This used to be Chanel No 5, but now I opt for Dior’s J’Adore or Tom Ford White Patchouli. A spritz of this fragrance during the day peps me up at work, keeps me fresh, and reminds others of just how perfect I am (and smell). 






- Emergency Make Up Kit. Most women I know (myself included) keep a little makeup bag of exceptional and cherished makeup products in their handbags for the purpose of touch ups. But, if for some reason you are taking an unusually small handbag to work and find yourself sans makeup, it is always handy to have a backup plan. That is, a selection of essentials kept at work for touch ups. I keep this kit small and to the point. Open my desk’s first drawer, unzip my pink Oroton makeup bag and you will find: Facial cleansing wipes (to easily clean off old makeup if required), Clinique dramatically different moisturiser, MAC concealer, Invisible Zinc tinted moisturier, a coral coloured shimmery Dior lipstick for both lips and cheeks (dab some on the apples of your cheek and blend in place of blush), and The Make Up Shop mascara. Very simply but gives a polished look when required. A hand-mirror is also required.





I like to believe that the above list is not as ridiculous as it may first have sounded – nor is it a frivolous list, nor a self-absorbed list. Rather, it is a list of basic grooming and maintenance ideas that will keep you looking professional, polished and perfect.


Thursday, April 1, 2010

Having House Guests



Here in Australia, and over much of the world I presume, it is a lovely long weekend. Thank you Easter, thank you. For some, a long weekend means a well-earned trip away. For others, such as myself, this long weekend means having my feet firmly planted on home soil and catering for someone else’s trip away. Yes, this weekend I am welcoming house guests – friends from interstate are coming to visit.

At some point, whether now or in the future, all of us will invite a guest to stay in our homes for either one night or an extended period, whether it is family, a friend or a lover (that word always makes me cringe – I don’t know why). Such an occasion is when good manners should come to the fore. It is also the perfect opportunity to showcase your perfect hostess skills!





Though of course it's very generous of you to open your doors to your guests in the first place, there is something utterly alluring about putting in a little extra effort and presenting your home and your life to your guest in the very best light.

While you may not have facilities comparable to that of an esteemed hotel (there's nothing like selecting the perfect pillow from Brisbane’s Emporium Hotel's pillow menu), there's no reason why your guests can't feel completely comfortable and like they're receiving the star treatment while at your home. (And, of course, it is just another avenue to show off your superior domestic goddess skills.)

While basic cleaning is obvious when inviting others into your home, I’ve come up with a few extra little hospitality tips that can be viewed as ‘the icing on the cake'. Follow these guidelines (which I appreciate may seem ridiculous to some – or many) and you will cement your status as the hostess with the mostess.

Now I understand that in most cases, the people coming to stay with you will love you dearly – and certainly wouldn’t care about all of the below suggestions. And you certainly don’t want to be seen as going overboard and be likened to Bree Van Der Kamp (I'm a big Desperate Housewives fan). Whichever way you choose to welcome your guest into your home, the most important part is to make it comfortable, seamless and natural. So if my ideas below are too over-the-top then just shake your head, laugh at them and move on.

But if you’re game… Select one or all of the following ‘do’s’ and ‘don’ts’ as your signature hospitality move, to ensure your perfection transcends you and your home, and your house guests never forget their stay.

Bedroom:

Do: Ensure the sheets and pillowcases on your guest's bed are freshly laundered and pressed. For sweet-smelling sheets, add a drop of lavender or rose oil to your regular washing load. It will make your sheets smell heavenly. 





Do: Ensure there's enough bedding for your guest. All beds should have at least two pillows, as well as a fitted sheet, a flat sheet, a doona or bedspread and an extra blanket in case it gets chilly.

Don't: Leave anything random or grotty in, near or around the bed (pyjamas, tissues and teddy bears are a big no no).

Don't: Use sheets or pillow cases with any permanent stains, such as mascara or pen marks or fake tan. These miscellaneous stains will keep your guests wondering just what could be.

Do: Spritz your guests' bed with a linen spray. I’m a big fan of Jo Malone’s which is a particularly enchanting one infused with parma violets. 





Don't: Let pets wander in your guests' room or jump on their beds, unless expressly invited.

Do: Place a bouquet or even just a posie of flowers in a vase on the bedside table. Whether bought or garden picked, flowers will fill the air with a heavenly scent and make your guest feel very luxurious.

Do: Keep a box of tissues in the room, as well as a waste paper basket. If you want to leave a lasting impression, a classy touch is to give you guest bottled water, also left by the bedside.

Don’t: Let your guests get too hot or stuffy. Be aware of the temperature and if the room isn’t air-conditioned, make sure your guests have a fan or at least know how to open and shut the windows.

Do: Make sure the lamp on the bedside table is working. Also leave a magazine or coffee table book lying around, should your guest be unable to sleep during the night.

Do: Have a fragrant candle and elegant packet of matches by the bedside. Sweetly-smelling candles are soothing and relaxing to your guests and if it’s a stylish one like Dipytique, it’s also super classy and indulgent. Your guests will love you. 






Bathroom:





Do: Add thoughtful touches to the bathroom to make your guest’s stay more comfortable, such as a new bar of soap (although I prefer liquid soap anyway), a fresh hand towel and bath towel, and an elegant room spray (Loccitane's Cherry Blossom is exquisite or for those on a shoestring budget, simply add five drops of any aromatherapy oil to water and store in a container with a spritzer). A bottle of perfume or cologne is also a nice touch and allows your guests to quickly freshen up.





Don't: Leave the bathroom with a bad odour, whatsoever. It is very easy for bathrooms to start smelling musty and this should be eradicated as soon as possible. Open the windows for fresh air. Dab some lavender oil on a polishing cloth and polish the room's doorways. Not only does lavender smell fresh, it also has cleaning agents in it and will remove unwanted dust. The smell will stay behind and scent the room from the moment someone enters.



Kitchen:

Do: Ensure you have plenty of drinks on ice. Have a bottle of sparkling San Pellegrino mineral water and Champagne (or sparkling wine) in the fridge and a bottle of Vodka in the freezer. If your guest is male, stock your fridge with some beer and he will love you forever.





Don't: Leave old food in the fridge. There is nothing worse than seeing mouldy food in someone else's fridge, and if your house guest is particularly close to you, there is also the added risk they might help themselves to the food without realising the expiry date. Ew.

Do: Ensure you have tea, coffee, fresh milk and bread as basic staples for your guests. Cheeses, quince paste, olives, dips and crackers are also essentials in my book, and ideal if entertaining.